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40+ years ago I began working with ”Utahns against Hunger “, an anti-hunger group in Utah with Kay Fox as our Director. Little did I know what a major impact it would have on my life.
It was then I met 2 of my new co-workers, Gwen Wright & Tamara Wharton. We bonded instantly. We were all single moms, & quickly become each other’s support system. It turned out that we only lived a block away from each other. So between being radical community advocates with our jobs & helping each other with our 15 (total kiddos) our lives became entwined as best friends.
We have been through ups & downs, & every major life event by each other’s sides. Having babies, losing children, marriages, divorces, school, & jobs.
Our children had three Moms. 🤗😁
Though we had very different lives & personalities, we were more like sisters than friends. We never had an argument in those 40+ years. Some spirited discussions perhaps, because nothing was ever off the table, but never an argument. But neverending laughter, & mischief. We knew each other’s deepest secrets.
Tamara was the youngest. She & I had a special aspect to our relationship. It was unexplainable. But it was proven over & over again.
When something happened to one of us, it would then happen to the other.
When I lost my only son “Deleone”, a short time later Tamara then lost her son “Matt”. Tamara was staying with me after a round of Chemo, when the military notified her of his death. Their services were held in the same building, & they will be in the same cemetery.
She was also the most optimistic (Gwen & I teased her with “denial”) person I knew. She spread love, compliments & hope everywhere she went.
Tamara had been courageously fighting cancer the last 2 1/2 years.  she was a fierce warrior and fought to her last breath.
With her three sons, Gwen and I by her side, she took her last breath Sept. 21, 2022, at 1:21A.M.
We are devestated & heartbroken.
We are also grateful & blessed that she was our best friend (she called us the Three Musketeers) for over 40 years.
I am comforted knowing she is now with her son Matt, and no longer in pain.
But the pain & sadness of her absence will be with Gwen & I to our last breath.
We love you “T”, now & forever. ❤️❤️